I was sitting around thinking about what I would write about next, when I received an unexpected e-mail. A former employer of mine who I now call friend, had disappeared off the face of the earth for the longest time! Lucky for me, he is one of the many employer’s I’ve had with great ambition and more importantly, a kind heart and great leadership. When I thought about him, I realized there is a lesson I can share with you that I learned vicariously from this great man.
A little trip back in time must be taken to share this with you. A few years ago, when I was still in University, I was hired to a great little socially responsible catering company. I say socially responsible because they had a division in the company that taught troubled kids how to become chefs and gain valuable skills to have a profession and stay away from trouble. This company had been started up by my former employer and his best friend.
Skipping all the in between, the catering company that was growing exponentially abruptly came to a halt. A bankruptcy claim was made and soon I was back to one job (I loved exploiting myself and working more than one job at a time while in school). I was puzzled and utterly confused. What had happened?
As we had become dear friends, my now ex-boss thoughtfully invited me for quick chat. He explained to me that his best friend and partner had been absconding company money behind his back for months! My former-boss who was a magnificent chef had been told by his best friend to deal with the cooking while he dealt with the administration side. Little did my poor boss know that while the growing company had worked hard to earn large and profitable contracts, his best friend had been purposely missing payments from every possible supplier, rental company, rent, contracts, etc.
My former boss had no other choice but to look for another job. Having spent much of his youthful years in his own catering company, he now had to compete with the younger chefs into finding a job that would be sufficient to cover his expenses. I was outraged and still to this day am quite angry at how such a terrible thing could happen to such a kind-hearted man.
The lesson is: The truth is that at work, you should consider your friend as a co-worker, and out of work, they can resume being just your friend. It is easy to forget that when you are doing business with a close friend yet alone a best friend or boyfriend/girlfriend. I know it sounds harsh, but I would not like anything like the above to happen to any of you. It doesn’t have to go as far as embezzlement but even being lazy, not accomplishing tasks that were required, and so on should not be tolerated because of their status in your social tree. Take care and good luck!
Today after class I went to the Vancouver City Hall located on 453 West 12th Avenue (Cambie & 12th). I had been postponing my trip to get my municipal license for PGTC because I had just recently started up and did not think it was immediately needed. However, having registered my business through
So I guess this is a little bit of old news, but on April 24th, I sent my poor partner (which I love to boss around) to an event called ”Marketing Essentials For Small Business Owners” which is hosted by a success coach named Sue Clement. She always gives out good advice and the time I got a chance to meet her, she was really sweet and kind. Anyway, it was an opportunity to learn and to network so, naturally, I sent my social butterfly of a partner to go in my stead since I had class at BCIT that day.
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